WAT CHANGES .."CIRCUMSTANCES OR PEOPLE.."?

yaa..it must be new 2 u guyz..mee with a serious topic..!!..bt had 2 write as ma blog is to share ma thoughts..frankly speaking life really depends on the circumstances.The people we know..who r close 2 our heart,without them,d day dont start, neither ends...people do holds these kind of places in our hearts,and i m sure everyone of u mst hav 1.But wat happens wen the actual face behind dese mask unfolds..the very next reaction is .."is dis the person,i was close 2..?"true isnt it."Circumstances"..d biggest word in our life,i think so.It can alter ur life through a 180 degree rotation..either in +ve or in -ve,either way it wants and den the game starts..the person who was with u in your gud times jst vanishes like a magician in a cloud of smoke without even chanting "abra ca dabra"..jst in a click.The moment wen u need someone to hold your hand in ur deepest and darkest times..is again expecting the bloody hell out of u.."if u were in pain,u could have told me".."you have always talked 2 mee..so wat happened now.." and bla bla..i jst wana know..wen dat person was with you..did he wait for your authentication abt ur problem ?..if he did then surely he deserved d same..but wat abt the people who were with u in ur darkest fears..they washed ur tears wen they needed to be blocked.Its very easy 2 expect bt its difficult 2 fulfill those expectations..stop giving lame excuses like.."i m alwayz been lik dis..i never initiate".. " i knew but i thought i should not interfere".. u know dese statements really hurt..because if the person really matters 2 u,u cant resist his absence,neither u cant wait for the initiation. how much a person is strong enough..he also need someone to take care of..if he is giving 100%..believe me he only expect 10%..dat is enouh for him 2 mak him feel better.but wen he finds no one,it doesnt take much time for him 2 jst back off frm ur life 4 ever.So friends seriously if you hav someone close to your heart..and u need 2 talk..do it now..unless the time will run out..and wen it will happen..u will be left with nothing...dats my point..nd if u du it will work believe me.Circumstances are the only thing which changes a person but it depends on the person in which way it changes him..either in positive way or negative way..and dat makes a personality and nature of a person.so dont trust any1 easily as u never know "the real mask could abt 2 b unfold"..